The Ugly Truth About Our Most Cherished “Flaw”

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In today’s type A society, “the perfectionist” is a lauded title. Often one step removed from genius. A fraternal twin to the savant.

The perfectionist is a rare breed of person. He is the innovator with the tenacity to see an idea through to its most complete form. She is the artist who is ceaseless to a fault. Never stopping at “good enough”; daring to push beyond greatness.

At its worst, we view “perfectionism” as a highly coveted “flaw”. A top shelf foible.

Just think of the stock response when a potential employer asks for your biggest weakness:

“Umm… I’m…

Start with a tease, and other ways to captivate an audience of 1 or 1,000

Photo: Jimmy Kimmel Live

For me, the late-night talk show has always represented a shameless form of star worship. How could a serious consumer of culture enjoy it? The fake laughter. The manufactured drama. The over-the-top host. It all screams phony!

But recently I’ve reconsidered. Talk shows are one of the few remaining forms of oral storytelling consumed on a wide scale. Sure, they may be canned and corny, but they offer actionable lessons on how to create character, build anticipation, and empathize with an audience. …

The Story Behind The Band’s Most Political Song

The year was 1968. Chaos enveloped the globe. In the United States, civil rights and anti-war activists clashed over the escalating conflict in Vietnam. The assassination of political and civil rights leaders like Robert Kennedy and Martin Luther King spread distrust and panic amongst the populace.

In Europe, Soviet tanks rolled in the streets of Prague as the Kremlin tightened an iron grip around its empire. Student protestors poured into the streets of Paris, nearly shutting down the French capital.

John Lennon and The Beatles felt this mounting tension. As the calendar year turned, the band departed to India for…

What do we do with suffering?

This is a question Nick Cave — author, musician, and Bad Seeds front man — can answer better than most. The death of his son inspired his last albums, Skeleton Tree and Ghosteen- two highlights in an impressive and expansive discography.

Last month, Cave experienced another tragedy with the passing of his lifelong collaborator Anita Lane. Following the event, a fan wrote to Cave asking if there is value in suffering. And wondering if there is anything we can do to stop from being crushed beneath it’s unbearable weight?

He had this to say:

How To Write Like A Natural Storyteller

How do you write an engaging story?

One that sounds smooth and relatable — the type told around pubs and campfires- rather than the stiff, cold ones that can find their way on the page?

In his latest book, Fight Club author Chuck Palahniuk gives writers a recipe to create more natural, engaging stories. He distills this recipe into three forms of communication:

Description — Man walks into a bar

Instruction — Walk into a bar

Exclamation (onomatopoeia) — Viola!

See the three forms come together in the paragraph below:

A man walks into a bar and orders a margarita…

How Embracing Your Shortcomings Leads To Creativity

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I recently stumbled across a TED Talk from actor Ethan Hawke. In the presentation, Hawke cites the ability to play the fool as the essential part of the creative process.

As someone who’s long been a proponent of making silly art and giving yourself permission to suck, the idea of playing the fool stuck with me.

It’s a role we’ve all played at times in our lives — especially if you’ve chosen to do creative work. In a world full of fools, we are perhaps the biggest fools of them all.

This may sound like a slight, but it shouldn’t!

Pic of a guest appearance by Swartzwelder on the show

During the 90s, The Simpsons writers’ room was a mecca for up-and-coming comedians.

Legends like Conan O’Brien, Greg Daniels, and Pixar’s Brad Bird cut their teeth working on the show. While many notable writers filled the chairs, one name towers above all in Simpson’s lore- John Swartzwelder.

Critics consider Swartzwelder the most prolific writer in Simpsons history. He was one of the chief architects of the show’s golden era. His sense of humor is so unique, writers call jokes in the same vein: “Swartzweldian.”

Despite his reputation, Swartzwelder shies away from the spotlight — a JD Salinger figure in the…

Big fan of ties and sunglasses… pants not so much

Do you remember Kindergarten art class?

For me, it was magic. I can recall memories of staring in awe at a blank page. Filling it with splashes of colors and patterns. And proudly displaying my crude (and likely crappy) work to my parents. It might not hang at the Louvre, but it sure as hell hung on our refrigerator door. The little dude above was one happy camper.

Flash forward a few years…

7 Tips For Building A Consistent Writing Habit

Image and challenge provided by Austin Kleon. Check it out

Last night I completed my 100 day writing challenge. For over three months, I plopped down by my laptop and hammered out at least five hundred words.

I did this under the pretense that showing up every day would make me a better writer — or at least suck a little less (see image above).

Did the challenge help achieve this goal? I like to think so, but I’ll leave that to the discretion of the reader.

The experience did teach me a few lessons about building a writing habit, coming up with ideas, and managing the highs and lows…

These shapes will help you plot your next story

What’s a story look like when stripped to the bone?

Before curtains drop, cameras roll, or ink hits the page.

Writers have filled tomes trying to answer this question, applying a full arsenal of images and metaphors. But when seeking to understand the structure of a story, I believe a picture says a thousand words.

In this post, you’ll find 5 images that show the shapes of stories. I’ve listed them in order of complexity, starting with the most basic and adding new layers as we go.

As you’ll see, narratives share similar appearances, but each visualization highlights some unique…

Antonio Rengel

Educator and Copywriter Who Writes About Creativity, Marketing, Pop Culture, And Occasionally Mindfulness Meditation

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